My Body Is Private by Linda Walvoord Girard

Illustrated by Rodney Pate. 32 pages. Whitman, 1984.

In this story, written in the first person, Julie explains what "private" means, noting that her body, and especially her breasts, vagina, and bottom, is private. Her parents tell her she has the right to say no to any unwanted touch. She also describes some pleasant kinds of touch, saying that "most touching is good." She tells how she said no to an uncle who wanted her to sit on his lap - she was frightened, but able to refuse, with no negative consequences. Her mom compliments her for standing up for herself. She also warns Julie about sexual abuse, explaining that it's unlikely, but important to be prepared for, like a fire. An afterword for adults encourages parents to talk with their children about sexual abuse prevention. This story explains sexual abuse in a clear, explicit way, while letting kids know that it's uncommon and that they can enjoy most touches.

Ages: 6-9
Cultural Context: European American