Welcome to the online home of Healing Stories: Picture Books for the Big and Small Changes in a Child's Life. Here you'll find information about Healing Stories, along with unique resources to support you in using picture books to help children through the challenges they face, from the everyday to major trauma.

Have you ever wished that you could find just the right book for a child? Maybe a child in your life is anticipating a big change, such as having a new brother or sister, starting school for the first time, or moving to a new house. Maybe something difficult and painful has happened, such as a divorce, a serious illness, or a death. Or maybe you just know a child who is fearful at bedtime, or is a fussy eater, or has a bad day occasionally. It may have occurred to you that sharing a story could help the child in your life manage the situation that she or he is going through.

Why a story? A healing story is a comforting experience. As a child, it’s a comfort to know that other kids have gone through what you’re going through - whether it’s something as ordinary as starting school for the first time, or something as traumatic as a natural disaster. It’s a comfort to know that other children have had the feelings you’re having, and that there are ways to solve the problem or to get through the situation. Most of all, it’s a comfort to share this experience by reading with an adult who cares deeply about you. And when you’ve read this healing story with your parent or another caring adult enough, the book itself - and ultimately, the story (in the absence of a physical book) - becomes a comfort. But, as a parent or other concerned adult, how will you find this healing story to share with your child?

Healing Stories puts at your fingertips an annotated listing of more than 500 picture books that was prepared just for this purpose. Each story or nonfiction picture book has been carefully selected by a psychologist who works extensively with children. Each chapter includes summaries of picture books relevant to a specific concern that children may have, empowering you to select the books that best match the child and the situation you’re concerned about. Healing Stories also includes a helpful introduction that discusses ways to use books with children who are experiencing life changes or stress.

Below you'll find reviews of picture books that aren't included in Healing Stories, and can be valuable sources of healing for children.

Monday, March 14, 2011

It Hurts When I Poop! by Howard J. Bennett, M.D.

Illustrated by M. S. Weber. 32 p., Magination, 2007.

When you're afraid that it will hurt to poop, it becomes scary to sit on the potty. Ryan, a little boy who loves to play with dinosaur toys, has this experience, because he knows that big poops hurt coming out. As a result, he tries to hold poops in, and he gets frequent tummy aches. Ryan's pediatrician, Dr. Gold, tells him a story about a coyote who lets his house fill up with trash, until he decides to take control of the situation and be the boss of the trash. The coyote cleans up his house and feels happy and proud. Dr. Gold offers Ryan a program to help him become the boss of his body, just as the coyote became the boss of his house. She explains how poop is made and that "Letting the poop out stops the tummy aches and makes people feel better." She reassures Ryan that he isn't the only child to feel fearful about pooping. The program includes choosing foods that make poops softer, visualizing the process of pooping, "potty practice" (sitting on the toilet for a few minutes daily), getting a sticker each time you poop, and rewarding yourself for pooping regularly. The author, a pediatrician, includes a helpful afterword for parents that describes ways to use the program with their children. The softly-colored illustrations are both gentle and expressive (and include two showing the internal digestive system). Children will find empathy and optimism in Ryan's story.

Ages 3-6
Main character's cultural background: European American
Cultural context: European American:

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Jacqueline Golding, Ph.D. is a psychologist in private practice in Pleasanton, California who works with children, teens, and adults. A graduate of Yale University, Dr. Golding earned her Ph.D. in psychology at the University of California, Los Angeles and completed a post-doctoral fellowship at the Central Contra Costa County Child, Adolescent, and Family Mental Health Service in Concord, California. She holds an appointment as Professor Emeritus at the University of California, San Francisco and has published over 100 articles in scientific and professional journals on topics such as trauma, depression, and cultural issues in mental health. Dr. Golding is represented by the Levine Greenberg Literary Agency.

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